Each day we have a choice

I’ve always been a firm believer that everything in life is a choice.

But wait, you might say; getting sick isn’t a choice, getting into an accident isn’t a choice, having cancer isn’t a choice. No, those aren’t choices we actively make; but how we respond to them is our choice.

I’ve been handed some pretty challenging cards in my life; getting pregnant at 18, separating from my sons father at 21, losing everything, being completely broke and wondering how I’ll put food on the table, and getting into a car accident that put my life on hold for almost 4 years, to name a few. I’ve had moments of self pity, I’ve shed a lot of tears, and I’ve wanted to give up so many times.

I never did though.

I let myself feel the failure and succumb to the pain, and then (with the help of my amazing friends and family) picked myself back up again. I woke up every morning determined to find something good in the day. I learned how to be grateful for what I had. I forced myself to try every day, and when something didn’t work, I tried again.

I made the choice to remain positive, and to focus on a better life.

I know how easy it is to give up; to let life take over and dwell on the negatives. I know how challenging it is when you’re going through a difficult time, to find something good in your day, but it’s so important. It can be as small as noticing the birds flying or a hot cup of coffee, anything that makes you smile.

I love sunrises, they fill me with happiness and purpose; I love watching the colours change as the sky comes alive for another day. I love smiling at everyone I see. I love noticing the small beauties around us; the flowers blooming, or the leaves changing colour. I also love making others happy; I write notes to my fiancé (even though I know he thinks they’re corny), I tell my son to have a wonderful day, I keep the house clean (this one is partially for me haha).

All these little things happen throughout the day, and each time they happen, I smile. I let them bring me up, and fill me with joy. When I’m having a bad day, I look for these little joys, and remember that life is pretty amazing.

Each day is a choice; we can either sit in the dark focused on the hardships of life; or we can open a window, and let this amazing life fill us with joy.

What do you do to bring joy and happiness to your life? Let me know in the comments!!

**Please know that if you’re struggling and think you may be depressed, that there are people who care deeply about you. If you need someone to talk to please call 310-6789You are loved 

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